What we’re about
Are you in your 20s/30s and wondering how to make friends as an adult? Did you just move to Richmond, VA (RVA) and need new friends or things to do? Have you lived in RVA for a while but still would like to diversify your circle of friends? Are you single, engaged, married, or divorced and looking to meet other like-minded friends? Do you like food, beer, wine, cooking classes, games, outdoor activities, music, or anything fun and would rather go with friends?
If you answered yes to any of those questions, this group is for you! Trying to Adult RVA is a membership-based social group. It is open to anyone 21+, of any gender, that want to make friends.
Please ensure you review our rules and policies. We have participation, attendance, return/refund, and social media rules.
Please visit our FAQ page for common questions about our events, membership, tickets, and more!
Please visit our website for more information about Trying to Adult RVA.
Upcoming events (4+)
See all- Pottery Painting NightAll Fired Up Short Pump, Glen Allen, VA
Ready to get creative? Join us for a relaxing night of pottery painting—no experience needed! From small figurines to large serving platters, you’ll have access to a huge selection of unfinished pottery (aka bisque) that you can turn into your own unique masterpiece.
✨ Think of it as a blank canvas—just pick your piece, grab some paints, and let your creativity flow!
This is a fun and low-key way to meet new people while trying something hands-on and creative. Whether you’re painting a gift, a keepsake, or just having fun with colors, you’ll leave with something uniquely yours.
🎉 Come solo or bring a friend—everyone is welcome. Spots are limited, so RSVP to save your seat at the table!
The studio fee for this this event is $4 for premium members and $8 for members. Spots are first purchased first confirmed. Space is limited to 25.
You must purchase your ticket via the Trying to Adult RVA website in order to have a guaranteed spot. You can purchase your ticket here!
Once all spots are claimed and the event is sold out, those unpaid will be moved to the waitlist on Meetup.
Parking: street parking right out front or free parking garage around the corner.
- Trivia at Pizza and Beer of Richmond (Mville)Pizza and Beer of Richmond At Hanover, MECHANICSVILLE , VA
Join us at PBR for an evening of fun and friendship! Kick off the night with food and drinks then trivia, where you can challenge your knowledge and team up with old friends or make new ones.
PBR offers a variety of food and drinks. Come join us for a drink and some trivia! Don't miss out on this fantastic opportunity to connect, compete, and potentially claim victory!
**This is a members only event** Memberships start at $5/month and can be cancelled or paused at any time! We would love for you to join us.
Space is limited to 16 people. Spots are first claimed first confirmed. All attendees must have a confirmed ticket to attend.You can claim your spot here.
Once all spots are claimed and the event is sold out, those without a ticket will be moved to the waitlist on Meetup.
Parking: there is a small parking lot on site. Parking may be limited so please allow extra time.
- Movie Night: TogetherRegal Cinema Short Pump 14 & IMAX, Richmond, VA
It’s movie night and we are going to see the new movie, “Together.”
Movie Summary: After moving to the countryside, a supernatural encounter starts to transform a couple's love, their lives, and their flesh.
TIME of the movie is to at 7:40PM, once tickets are posted online on fandango we will let people know in the comments. You are responsible for purchasing your own movie ticket. Please arrive at the theater early to check in with us.
All attendees must have a confirmed ticket from the Trying to Adult RVA website. All attendees must also purchase a movie ticket separately. You can do so via Fandango.com or the movie theater's website!
You can claim your spot with our group here.
Parking: There is a parking lot outside of the theater for parking.
We may go to a nearby restaurant after the film for socializing for any who are interested. - Patrick Henry Pub SocialPatrick Henry's Pub and Grill, Richmond, VA
Join us for a fun evening at the Patrick Henry Pub Social! This is the perfect opportunity to make friends and meet new people in one of Richmond’s most historic and charming settings.
Nestled in an antebellum building on Historic Church Hill, Patrick Henry Pub is just a block away from the iconic St. John’s Church, where Patrick Henry delivered his famous speech: “Give me liberty, or give me death!”
Explore the casual yet inviting atmosphere featuring a cozy restaurant and an authentic English pub. Whether you’re in the mood for a delicious pizza, a classic burger, or light snacks, there’s something for everyone—plus a full bar to keep the good vibes flowing.
Come for the history, stay for the great company. Let’s make connections, enjoy good food, and toast to a night well spent!
This event is for Trying to Adult RVA members. Memberships start at $5/month and can be cancelled or paused at any time! We would love for you to join us. Space is limited to 20 people. Spots are first claimed first confirmed. All attendees must have a confirmed ticket to attend.
You can claim your spot here.
Parking: mostly street parking but not a super busy area so you should be able to easily find a spot. Just be sure to abide by posted signage!
