Singles Mingle - Getting Singles Together - Bay Area

You guys, we're going back to DecoDance in SF!
DecoDance is pure swank and class! 🍸✨

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Think amazing cocktails, delicious food, cozy couches, gorgeous décor you’ll fall in love with, and an all-around vibey atmosphere. This hidden gem on the side of Polk Street is truly something special.
Last time it got pretty hot in here so dress for dancing and a full house!
I will also bring a coat rack this time :)
Come join us on FRIDAY SEPTEMBER 18th 2026 ~ 7-10pm

• Free entry
• A fun icebreaker game to get everyone mingling
• Tons of local singles
• Great food, drinks, and unforgettable vibes
• DJ starts at 9:30pm

Please note this isn’t a private party, the venue will remain open to the public. You’ll receive a wristband at check-in so it’s easy to spot fellow attendees 🙂
Wristband and ice breaker distribution is 7pm-10pm but the event continues until closing (2AM).

DISCLAIMER: This event is advertised on multiple social media platforms, so the RSVP count may not reflect the actual attendance.

ADDITIONAL DISCLAIMER: Food and drinks are not included with the free entry. They are available for purchase.
This event will be on the LOUD side since it's a night club. I recommend showing up between 7-9pm to mingle before many of us hit the dance floor!
DJ starts @ 9:30pm!

Age Info: This event is for ages 21 and up! If you’re curious about the typical age range, it can be hard to predict, as many attendees discover the event through online advertising and don’t RSVP in advance. Because of this, I don’t always know exactly who or what ages will be attending—this is also a big reason the event is free to attend. Based on my experience hosting 200+ events, the predominant age range tends to be 30–65, though each event is unique and attracts a diverse mix of people.

A QUICK NOTE ABOUT THE MALE-TO-FEMALE RATIO:
The male-to-female ratio you see on Meetup is not the whole story. These events are promoted across numerous platforms, social media, online advertising, shared by members, sent to friends, and discovered in countless other ways. Many people who attend never RSVP on Meetup at all.
I’ve also been told by several women that they intentionally don’t RSVP because they prefer to attend more incognito, so please keep that in mind when looking at the RSVP ratio for any Singles Mingle event.
There is simply no way for me to know or guarantee the gender ratio beforehand, especially since the vast majority of Singles Mingle events are FREE and open to singles from everywhere.
On the rare occasion that an event does have a small entry fee, it’s typically only $10. Either way, you’re never committed to staying! Come check out the crowd, mingle for a bit, and if the event isn’t what you were hoping for, you’re always free to head out and continue with your evening. 😊

### ⭐ A QUICK NOTE ABOUT RATINGS

Please keep in mind that low ratings affect the entire Singles Mingle community, not just one event. The higher the group’s overall rating, the more likely new singles are to join, which means more people at events and more opportunities for everyone to make connections.
If you attend an event and don’t enjoy something about it, I strongly encourage you to DM me or share your constructive feedback in your written review, but please consider giving the overall group 5 stars. Tell me what worked, what didn’t, and what you’d like to see improved. I do read the feedback and use it when planning future events.
A few low ratings can bring down the overall group rating very quickly. If we fall into the 4.4 or 4.3 range, it becomes much harder to attract new members, which ultimately hurts the same members who want bigger and better turnouts. There really aren’t many outlets like Singles Mingle in the Bay Area, and I’m trying to protect what we’ve built and keep it growing. ❤️
Members who leave a 1 or 2 star rating may be removed from the Meetup group. You are still welcome to find and attend Singles Mingle events through the other platforms where they’re advertised, but Meetup membership is reserved for those who want to support the continued growth of the group.
Every 5 star rating helps more singles find us. ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ Thank you for helping keep this community going!

🎉 New Location Alert! 🎉
I'm excited to announce a brand-new Singles Mingle venue—Storybook in Hayward! 🍻✨
We'll be taking over their back patio for a private party just for Singles Mingle!
✅ FREE Entry
✅ 21 & Up (see age info below)
✅ No ticket or RSVP required—just show up!
🕓 Arrive anytime between 4:00–7:00 PM.
📍 Private entrance: Use the entrance on the left side of the main entrance or just look for the giant Singles Mingle chalkboard—it'll lead you right to the party!
🍹 Chill ambiance with no loud music blaring, making it easy to have real conversations.
🍔 Full food menu and bar available for purchase throughout the event.
Come meet new people, relax, and check out one of our newest venues. I can't wait to see you there! ❤️

READ AGE INFO BELOW!
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This event is FREE! Just show up! No RSVP required!
Be sure to locate the host upon arrival to receive a wristband and an icebreaker game! I'll be right at the entrance, impossible to miss me!

Check-in information: Arrive between 4pm-7pm. Locate the host. Receive wristband and icebreaker game. Mingle :)
After 7pm, the festivities will continue but the wristbands will be no longer be available. Wristbands allow other members to identify you as a fellow party member.

Age Info: This event is for ages 21 and up! If you’re curious about the typical age range, it can be hard to predict, as many attendees discover the event through online advertising and don’t RSVP in advance. Because of this, I don’t always know exactly who or what ages will be attending—this is also a big reason the event is free to attend. Based on my experience hosting 200+ events, the predominant age range tends to be 30–65, though each event is unique and attracts a diverse mix of people.

DISCLAIMER: This event is advertised on multiple platforms, so the RSVP count may not reflect the actual attendance. The host is not responsible for lost, stolen, or damaged belongings. Additionally, the host is not responsible for the DJ, live band, or any music played at the venue. Please bring PHYSICAL ID ~
Only requirement to attend is that you're single (your wing person does not have to be single, they just won't receive a wristband or an icebreaker game but they are welcome to attend with you).

ADDITIONAL DISCLAIMER: Food and drinks are available for purchase and not included with Singles Mingle.

A QUICK NOTE ABOUT THE MALE-TO-FEMALE RATIO:
The male-to-female ratio you see on Meetup is not the whole story. These events are promoted across numerous platforms, social media, online advertising, shared by members, sent to friends, and discovered in countless other ways. Many people who attend never RSVP on Meetup at all.
I’ve also been told by several women that they intentionally don’t RSVP because they prefer to attend more incognito, so please keep that in mind when looking at the RSVP ratio for any Singles Mingle event.
There is simply no way for me to know or guarantee the gender ratio beforehand, especially since the vast majority of Singles Mingle events are FREE and open to singles from everywhere.
On the rare occasion that an event does have a small entry fee, it’s typically only $10. Either way, you’re never committed to staying! Come check out the crowd, mingle for a bit, and if the event isn’t what you were hoping for, you’re always free to head out and continue with your evening. 😊

### ⭐ A QUICK NOTE ABOUT RATINGS

Please keep in mind that low ratings affect the entire Singles Mingle community, not just one event. The higher the group’s overall rating, the more likely new singles are to join, which means more people at events and more opportunities for everyone to make connections.
If you attend an event and don’t enjoy something about it, I strongly encourage you to DM me or share your constructive feedback in your written review, but please consider giving the overall group 5 stars. Tell me what worked, what didn’t, and what you’d like to see improved. I do read the feedback and use it when planning future events.
A few low ratings can bring down the overall group rating very quickly. If we fall into the 4.4 or 4.3 range, it becomes much harder to attract new members, which ultimately hurts the same members who want bigger and better turnouts. There really aren’t many outlets like Singles Mingle in the Bay Area, and I’m trying to protect what we’ve built and keep it growing. ❤️
Members who leave a 1 or 2 star rating may be removed from the Meetup group. You are still welcome to find and attend Singles Mingle events through the other platforms where they’re advertised, but Meetup membership is reserved for those who want to support the continued growth of the group.
Every 5 star rating helps more singles find us. ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ Thank you for helping keep this community going!

Ditch the excuses and join us for a fun summer night out at Cellar Door in Pleasanton! 🎉
Enjoy FREE entry, delicious food, great drinks, an outdoor patio, and tons of local singles ready to mingle!
Step away from the ordinary and into a relaxed, pressure-free atmosphere where meeting new people and having genuine conversations comes naturally.
📍 Where: Cellar Door
4469 Railroad Ave, Pleasanton, CA
📅 When: Sunday, September 20th
🕕 Time: 5-8PM
📸 IG: @singles_mingle_ca
Be sure to locate the host upon arrival to receive your wristband! Look for Singles Mingle shirts and/or the blonde woman (me) near the front entrance. Hope to see you there! 🥂

READ AGE INFO BELOW!
READ RATIO INFO BELOW!
READ RATINGS INFO BELOW!

Check-in information: Arrive anytime between 5pm-8pm. Locate the host. Receive wristband and icebreaker game. Mingle :)
After 8pm, the festivities will continue but the wristbands will be no longer be available.
Wristbands allow other members to identify you as a fellow party member.

Age Info: This event is for ages 21 and up! If you’re curious about the typical age range, it can be hard to predict, as many attendees discover the event through online advertising and don’t RSVP in advance. Because of this, I don’t always know exactly who or what ages will be attending—this is also a big reason the event is free to attend. Based on my experience hosting 200+ events, the predominant age range tends to be 30–65, though each event is unique and attracts a diverse mix of people.

DISCLAIMER: This event is advertised on multiple social media platforms, so the RSVP count may not reflect the actual attendance.
The host is not responsible for lost, stolen, or damaged belongings. Additionally, the host is not responsible for the DJ, live band, or any music played at the venue.
Please bring PHYSICAL ID ~
Only requirement to attend is that you're single (your wing person does not have to be single, they just won't receive a wristband or an icebreaker game but they are welcome to attend with you).

ADDITIONAL DISCLAIMER: Food and drinks are available for purchase and not included with Singles Mingle.

A QUICK NOTE ABOUT THE MALE-TO-FEMALE RATIO:
The male-to-female ratio you see on Meetup is not the whole story. These events are promoted across numerous platforms, social media, online advertising, shared by members, sent to friends, and discovered in countless other ways. Many people who attend never RSVP on Meetup at all.
I’ve also been told by several women that they intentionally don’t RSVP because they prefer to attend more incognito, so please keep that in mind when looking at the RSVP ratio for any Singles Mingle event.
There is simply no way for me to know or guarantee the gender ratio beforehand, especially since the vast majority of Singles Mingle events are FREE and open to singles from everywhere.
On the rare occasion that an event does have a small entry fee, it’s typically only $10. Either way, you’re never committed to staying! Come check out the crowd, mingle for a bit, and if the event isn’t what you were hoping for, you’re always free to head out and continue with your evening. 😊

### ⭐ A QUICK NOTE ABOUT RATINGS

Please keep in mind that low ratings affect the entire Singles Mingle community, not just one event. The higher the group’s overall rating, the more likely new singles are to join, which means more people at events and more opportunities for everyone to make connections.
If you attend an event and don’t enjoy something about it, I strongly encourage you to DM me or share your constructive feedback in your written review, but please consider giving the overall group 5 stars. Tell me what worked, what didn’t, and what you’d like to see improved. I do read the feedback and use it when planning future events.
A few low ratings can bring down the overall group rating very quickly. If we fall into the 4.4 or 4.3 range, it becomes much harder to attract new members, which ultimately hurts the same members who want bigger and better turnouts. There really aren’t many outlets like Singles Mingle in the Bay Area, and I’m trying to protect what we’ve built and keep it growing. ❤️
Members who leave a 1 or 2 star rating may be removed from the Meetup group. You are still welcome to find and attend Singles Mingle events through the other platforms where they’re advertised, but Meetup membership is reserved for those who want to support the continued growth of the group.
Every 5 star rating helps more singles find us. ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ Thank you for helping keep this community going!