About us
We're shaking up the Bay Area social scene with Singles Mingle!
We have 4-10 events per month!
Join us at bars, breweries, and restaurants for fun, friendly mixers where you can meet local singles face-to-face—no swiping required.
THIS IS NOT SPEED DATING!
Whether you're looking to connect, make new friends, or just enjoy a great night out, our monthly events are the perfect place to start.
The only requirement to attend a Singles Mingle event is that you are single! 🥂 We welcome everyone, but we also believe in the power of true alignment and connection. To better serve our community, we have launched a dedicated chapter: Singles Mingle LGBTQ+. 🏳️🌈
If you feel that community would be a better fit for your journey, be sure to follow that group for specific events and updates! https://www.meetup.com/singlesminglelgbtq/
🎉 Free all-ages events
$10 age-specific mixers and $20 special events!
📍 Stay in the loop by following us on Meetup, social media, or visiting [SinglesMingleCA.com](http://singlesmingleca.com).
❤️ Donations are appreciated via Pledge on the "About" page or Venmo @Adeline-Farrer. Every dollar helps keep Singles Mingle alive and thriving.
Upcoming events
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Singles Mingle Karaoke Night in San Leandro 21+ FREE ENTRY!
Danny Murry's Irish Pub, 1680 Washington Ave, San Leandro, CA 94577, USA, San Leandro, CA, US🎤🍻 WE’RE HEADING BACK TO DANNY MURRY’S! 🍻🎤
Alright! If you’ve been with Singles Mingle since the beginning, you might remember this spot — Danny Murry’s Irish Pub in San Leandro!
Singles Mingle has grown quite a bit since those early days, but I thought it would be fun to bring us back for a Thursday night of mingling and karaoke! 🎤❤️
📅 Thursday, November 12th
⏰ 7–10 PM
🎟️ FREE ENTRY!
❤️ 21 & Up
No ticket or payment required — just show up!After hosting 200+ Singles Mingle events, I’m excited to bring everyone back to one of the original spots. Hope to see some familiar faces AND plenty of new ones! ❤️
🎤 PLEASE NOTE: This will be a LOUD event because of karaoke!
🍻 Bar accepts cash and card
🍺 Sierra Nevada Pint Night — FREE glass + refills!
🚗 Free and paid parking nearby
🎤 Karaoke throughout the evening
🧩 Singles Mingle icebreaker game
❤️ Wristbands to identify fellow attendeesCHECK-IN:
When you arrive, look for me at the Singles Mingle check-in area! I’ll be wearing a Singles Mingle shirt and will have your wristband and icebreaker game ready.
Check-in and wristbands will be available from 7–10 PM. The party can continue after 10 PM, but I’ll no longer be handing out wristbands.🚗 PARKING:
The parking lot directly next door is paid, but there is also plenty of free parking around the bar.❤️ AGE INFO:
This event is 21+, but 21 is simply the minimum age, not the typical age of attendees. After hosting 200+ events, I’ve found the predominant age range is typically around 30–65, although every event is different and attracts its own mix of singles.
Since many people discover Singles Mingle through advertising and simply show up without RSVPing, online RSVP numbers do not necessarily reflect actual attendance.🎉 FREE ENTRY • NO TICKET REQUIRED • JUST SHOW UP!
See you in San Leandro! 🎤🍻❤️
A QUICK NOTE ABOUT THE MALE-TO-FEMALE RATIO:
The male-to-female ratio you see on Meetup is not the whole story. These events are promoted across numerous platforms, social media, online advertising, shared by members, sent to friends, and discovered in countless other ways. Many people who attend never RSVP on Meetup at all.
I’ve also been told by several women that they intentionally don’t RSVP because they prefer to attend more incognito, so please keep that in mind when looking at the RSVP ratio for any Singles Mingle event.
There is simply no way for me to know or guarantee the gender ratio beforehand, especially since the vast majority of Singles Mingle events are FREE and open to singles from everywhere.
On the rare occasion that an event does have a small entry fee, it’s typically only $10. Either way, you’re never committed to staying! Come check out the crowd, mingle for a bit, and if the event isn’t what you were hoping for, you’re always free to head out and continue with your evening. 😊### ⭐ A QUICK NOTE ABOUT RATINGS
Please keep in mind that low ratings affect the entire Singles Mingle community, not just one event. The higher the group’s overall rating, the more likely new singles are to join, which means more people at events and more opportunities for everyone to make connections.
If you attend an event and don’t enjoy something about it, I strongly encourage you to DM me or share your constructive feedback in your written review, but please consider giving the overall group 5 stars. Tell me what worked, what didn’t, and what you’d like to see improved. I do read the feedback and use it when planning future events.
A few low ratings can bring down the overall group rating very quickly. If we fall into the 4.4 or 4.3 range, it becomes much harder to attract new members, which ultimately hurts the same members who want bigger and better turnouts. There really aren’t many outlets like Singles Mingle in the Bay Area, and I’m trying to protect what we’ve built and keep it growing. ❤️
Members who leave a 1 or 2 star rating may be removed from the Meetup group. You are still welcome to find and attend Singles Mingle events through the other platforms where they’re advertised, but Meetup membership is reserved for those who want to support the continued growth of the group.
Every 5 star rating helps more singles find us. ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ Thank you for helping keep this community going!Mission statement: Singles Mingle is on a mission to get singles off of dating apps and out meeting one another in person. Our goal is to offer a refreshing alternative to dating apps by providing monthly events where singles can meet, make friends, and enjoy a lively social atmosphere. We believe in the power of face-to-face connections and aim to create a space where individuals can step out of their comfort zones, delete the dating apps, and experience the genuine joy of mingling. Our events promise a fun and relaxed environment, making it easier for you to connect with other like-minded singles. Join us at Singles Mingle and let's redefine the way you approach meeting new people.
**www.singlesmingleca.com**86 attendees
Singles Mingle @ Roadside22 in Clayton 35&UP $10 Entry!
Roadside 22, 5439 Clayton Rd Ste E-F, Clayton, CA 94517, USA, Clayton, CA, US🎉 NEW VENUE ALERT — CLAYTON! ❤️
Singles Mingle is heading to Roadside 22 in Clayton on Sunday, November 15th for an exclusive 35 & Up Singles Mingle!
📅 Sunday, November 15th
⏰ 4–7 PM
❤️ 35 & Up (30-34 welcome too)
🎟️ $10 Entry — Pay at the Door
🚗 FREE Parking
Roadside 22 is right on the border of Clayton and Concord, and I think it’s going to be a great new spot for us to meet and mingle!✨ Indoor & outdoor spaces
🍔 Full food menu
🍺 Beer
🍷 Wine & Rosé
🥂 Bubbly
🍎 Ciders & Sours
🚗 Plenty of FREE parking
🎟️ NO PAYMENT NEEDED HERE ON MEETUP!
I figured I’d try something a little different this time so I can hopefully get a more accurate headcount. Simply RSVP “Going” here on Meetup and pay your $10 when you arrive at the door!
Payment at the door can be made by:
💵 Cash
📱 Venmo
📲 Zelle
🍎 Apple Pay
✍️ Check
No credit or debit cards, please!
Once you check in and pay, you’ll receive your Singles Mingle wristband and icebreaker game, and you’re ready to mingle! ❤️
New venue, smaller crowd, great food and drinks, and an evening with local singles 35 & Up!
Hope to see you there!No RSVP is required. Just show up and pay at the door!
Age Info: This event is for ages 35 and up, but if you’re between 30 and 35, you’re absolutely welcome to join—especially if you’re interested in dating or making friends within this age range.
Check-in Information: Arrive whenever you'd like, but wristband and icebreaker distribution is only from 4:00 PM to 7:00 PM. Wristbands are essential as they allow other members to identify you as part of the group.
Based on my experience hosting 100+ events, we expect a great turnout. Don't rely on the RSVP count here, as many guests discover us through outside advertising and pay at the door. Come ready to meet new people in a relaxed, private setting!DISCLAIMER: This event is advertised on multiple social media platforms, so the RSVP count may not reflect the actual attendance. The host is not responsible for lost, stolen, or damaged belongings. Additionally, the host is not responsible for the DJ, live band, or any music played at the venue. Please bring PHYSICAL ID ~
ADDITIONAL DISCLAIMER: Food and drinks are available for purchase and not included with Singles Mingle.Mission Statement: Singles Mingle is on a mission to get singles off of dating apps and out meeting one another in person. Our goal is to offer a refreshing alternative to dating apps by providing monthly events where singles can meet, make friends, and enjoy a lively social atmosphere. We believe in the power of face-to-face connections and aim to create a space where individuals can step out of their comfort zones, delete the dating apps, and experience the genuine joy of mingling. Join us at Singles Mingle and let's redefine the way you approach meeting new people.
Visit us at [SinglesMingleCA.com](http://singlesmingleca.com/) and follow along on social media @Singles_Mingle_CA!43 attendees
Singles Mingle @ Zoe's Bar in SF 21+ FREE ENTRY!
579 Howard Street, 579 Howard St, San Francisco, CA 94105, USA, San Francisco, CA, US🥂❤️ SAN FRANCISCO SINGLES, LET'S MINGLE! ❤️🥂
I'm bringing Singles Mingle BACK to Zoe's Bar in San Francisco for another fun night of meeting new people, making connections, and enjoying the city! 🥳
📅 Saturday, November 21st
⏰ 6–9 PM
📍 Zoe's Bar | San Francisco
🎟️ 100% FREE ENTRY!
❤️ Ages 21 & Up
✨ WHAT TO EXPECT!
❤️ Meet local Bay Area singles
🧩 Fun icebreaker game to help start conversations
🍹 Full bar with alcoholic & non-alcoholic options
🍔 Full kitchen serving food until 10 PM
🎶 DJ starts at 9:30 PM with today's hits, hip hop, R&B & more!
🌿 Indoor space & outdoor patio
🥂 A relaxed, casual atmosphere with no awkward speed dating!❤️ A LITTLE HEADS-UP ABOUT THE VENUE!
Zoe's Bar is a smaller venue, and it can definitely get crowded! But personally, I think that's part of the fun! 🥳
There's something about a packed room full of singles that creates great energy, makes conversations easier to start, and brings everyone together!
San Francisco is known for its smaller, more intimate venues, so if you love a lively, bustling atmosphere where everyone is mingling close together, this event is for you! ❤️
If you prefer lots of personal space or a quieter environment, just keep in mind that this one may not be your ideal setting.🚗 PARKING & TRANSPORTATION
Parking lots are located on the corner and directly across the street. The venue is also accessible by Muni and BART and conveniently located near the first Bay Bridge exit into San Francisco.❤️ WHAT AGES ATTEND?
This event is open to ALL singles 21 & Up! That doesn't mean everyone is in their 20s!
Based on my experience hosting 200+ events, the predominant age range is typically 30–65, although every event is different and attracts a diverse mix of people.
Since many attendees discover my events through online advertising and show up without RSVPing, I can't predict the exact ages or turnout in advance. RSVP numbers don't necessarily reflect actual attendance.🌐 RSVP & UPCOMING EVENTS
Visit www.SinglesMingleCA.com to see my FULL lineup of upcoming events and RSVP directly through the website!
RSVPs are completely OPTIONAL! No ticket or reservation required. Just show up!💬 A FEW FRIENDLY REMINDERS
Food and drinks are available for purchase and are not included with free admission. Cash, cards, and Apple Pay are accepted.
You're welcome to bring a friend who isn't single, but wristbands are reserved for singles participating in the event!
❤️ COME SOLO OR BRING YOUR SINGLE FRIENDS!
Many people attend alone, so don't be shy! Grab your wristband, join the icebreaker, and start meeting people.
SMALL VENUE, BIG ENERGY, AND LOTS OF NEW CONNECTIONS! 🥂❤️
I can't wait to see you there! 🥳Mission statement:
Singles Mingle is on a mission to get singles off of dating apps and out meeting one another in person. Our goal is to offer a refreshing alternative to dating apps by providing monthly events where singles can meet, make friends, and enjoy a lively social atmosphere. We believe in the power of face-to-face connections and aim to create a space where individuals can step out of their comfort zones, delete the dating apps, and experience the genuine joy of mingling. Our events promise a fun and relaxed environment, making it easier for you to connect with other like-minded singles. Join us at Singles Mingle and let's redefine the way you approach meeting new people.
🌐 www.singlesmingleca.com70 attendees
Singles Mingle @ The Office Bar in Willow Glen 21+ FREE ENTRY!
The Office Bar & Lounge, 2306 Almaden Rd, San Jose, CA 95125, USA, San Jose, CA, US🔥 NEW VENUE ALERT! 🔥
Singles Mingle is heading to The Office Bar in Willow Glen! ❤️
Come meet us for a FREE singles event and get ready because this one is looking like it’s going to be a FULL HOUSE! 🎉
❤️ 21 & Up
🎟️ FREE ENTRY
🚗 FREE PARKING
🌙 Indoor & outdoor space
🍹 Full bar
🧩 Singles Mingle icebreakers
🎉 Great space to mix, mingle & meet local singles!PLEASE NOTE: The Office Bar does not serve food, so come fed or be prepared to order some DoorDash. 😂🍕
AGE DISCLAIMER: 21 & Up simply means 21 is the minimum age, not that the crowd is primarily in their 20s. My events attract singles of all different ages, with the predominant age range typically around 30–65.
NO TICKET OR RSVP REQUIRED! Just show up, check in with me for your wristband and icebreaker, grab a drink, and start mingling! ❤️
READ AGE INFO BELOW!
READ RATIO INFO BELOW!
READ RATING INFO BELOW!DISCLAIMER: This event is advertised on multiple social media platforms, so the RSVP count may not reflect the actual attendance.
The host is not responsible for lost, stolen, or damaged belongings. Additionally, the host is not responsible for the DJ, live band, or any music played at the venue.
Food and drinks are available for purchase and are not provided by Singles Mingle.
Only requirement to attend is that you're single (your wing person does not have to be single, they just won't receive a wristband or an icebreaker game but they are welcome to attend with you).RSVP Note: Please note that RSVPs are not required.
Feel free to bring friends and simply show up – no tickets or RSVP needed. FREE ALL AGES (21+) EVENT.A QUICK NOTE ABOUT THE MALE-TO-FEMALE RATIO:
The male-to-female ratio you see on Meetup is not the whole story. These events are promoted across numerous platforms, social media, online advertising, shared by members, sent to friends, and discovered in countless other ways. Many people who attend never RSVP on Meetup at all.
I’ve also been told by several women that they intentionally don’t RSVP because they prefer to attend more incognito, so please keep that in mind when looking at the RSVP ratio for any Singles Mingle event.
There is simply no way for me to know or guarantee the gender ratio beforehand, especially since the vast majority of Singles Mingle events are FREE and open to singles from everywhere.
On the rare occasion that an event does have a small entry fee, it’s typically only $10. Either way, you’re never committed to staying! Come check out the crowd, mingle for a bit, and if the event isn’t what you were hoping for, you’re always free to head out and continue with your evening. 😊### ⭐ A QUICK NOTE ABOUT RATINGS
Please keep in mind that low ratings affect the entire Singles Mingle community, not just one event. The higher the group’s overall rating, the more likely new singles are to join, which means more people at events and more opportunities for everyone to make connections.
If you attend an event and don’t enjoy something about it, I strongly encourage you to DM me or share your constructive feedback in your written review, but please consider giving the overall group 5 stars. Tell me what worked, what didn’t, and what you’d like to see improved. I do read the feedback and use it when planning future events.
A few low ratings can bring down the overall group rating very quickly. If we fall into the 4.4 or 4.3 range, it becomes much harder to attract new members, which ultimately hurts the same members who want bigger and better turnouts. There really aren’t many outlets like Singles Mingle in the Bay Area, and I’m trying to protect what we’ve built and keep it growing. ❤️
Members who leave a 1 or 2 star rating may be removed from the Meetup group. You are still welcome to find and attend Singles Mingle events through the other platforms where they’re advertised, but Meetup membership is reserved for those who want to support the continued growth of the group.
Every 5 star rating helps more singles find us. ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ Thank you for helping keep this community going!Mission statement: Singles Mingle is on a mission to get singles off of dating apps and out meeting one another in person. Our goal is to offer a refreshing alternative to dating apps by providing monthly events where singles can meet, make friends, and enjoy a lively social atmosphere. We believe in the power of face-to-face connections and aim to create a space where individuals can step out of their comfort zones, delete the dating apps, and experience the genuine joy of mingling. Our events promise a fun and relaxed environment, making it easier for you to connect with other like-minded singles. Join us at Singles Mingle and let's redefine the way you approach meeting new people.
**www.singlesmingleca.com**115 attendees
Past events
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