
What we’re about
Welcome to New Jersey LGBTQ+ Meetups!
We're your go-to source for all things LGBTQ+ happening in New Jersey. We promote and showcase the many events organized by various LGBTQ+ groups in the state. *We are not affiliated with any one organization or group - just facilitator to help you find many of the vibrant LGBTQ+ events in NJ*
Stay tuned for the best happy hours, activities, book clubs and many other exciting happenings nearby! If you have LGBTQ+ events you'd like to advertise, please reach out to us with plenty of notice so we can add them, here.
Upcoming events
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Gay Social's 3RD Cup Saturday
Sugar Tree Cafe, 358 Passaic Avenue, Nutley, NJ, USThis event is organized by Gay Social, a 501(c)(3) nonprofit dedicated to fostering connections within our LGBTQ+ community through vibrant and inclusive social events. Join us to celebrate diversity, build friendships, and have some fun! Visit www.gaysocialnj.org for more information.
3rd Cup Saturday is an afternoon coffee meetup with the LGBTQ community. It is friendly, unhurried, and easy to join. People come to catch up, meet someone new, or just spend a bit of time together without a packed schedule.
Billy, our Community Manager, is there to welcome newcomers and help connect people naturally.
Event details
☕ Every other month, third Saturday
⏰ 2:00 PM to 4:00 PM
📍 Sugar Tree Cafe, Nutley
🎟️ Free to attend / No RSVP needed
🅿️ Free street and lot parking
ℹ️ Food and drinks on your own2 attendees
Gay Social's Spritz & Soirée
Aperitivo Bar, 25 NJ-31, Pennington, NJ 08534, Pennington, NJ, USThis event is organized by Gay Social, a 501(c)(3) nonprofit dedicated to fostering connections within our LGBTQ+ community through vibrant and inclusive social events. Join us to celebrate diversity, build friendships, and have some fun! Visit www.gaysocialnj.org for more information.
Spritz and Soirée feels like stepping into a little slice of the Amalfi Coast in Mercer County. The space is bright, stylish, and built for lingering, the kind of place where people naturally gather around small tables, lean into conversation, and lose track of time.
This is a social night that leans into connection. Friends catch up, new conversations start easily, and it never feels awkward to join in. Whether you are settling into one good conversation or bouncing between a few, the room makes it feel natural.
It is welcoming, social, and easy to enjoy, especially if you like a night that is more about talking and connecting than standing in a loud crowd.
Event details
🍹 Every other month, last Wednesday
⏰ 6:30 PM to 9:30 PM
📍 Aperitivo Bar, Pennington
🎟️ Free to attend / No RSVP needed
🅿️ Free lot parking
ℹ️ Food and drinks on your own6 attendees
Gay Social's Spotlight Social
The 244 Spot, 244 Cedar Street,, South Amboy, NJ, USThis event is organized by Gay Social, a 501(c)(3) nonprofit dedicated to fostering connections within our LGBTQ+ community through vibrant and inclusive social events. Join us to celebrate diversity, build friendships, and have some fun! Visit www.gaysocialnj.org for more information.
Spotlight Social is a recurring LGBTQ community nightlife gathering in South Amboy with a high-energy local-bar feel. The night blends DJ'd music, dancing, and socializing, making it easy to connect with both familiar and new faces throughout the evening.
Event details
🎶 Every other month, last Friday
⏰ 8:00 PM to 12:00 AM
📍 The 244 Spot, South Amboy
🎟️ No cover / No RSVP Required
🅿️ Free street parking
ℹ️ Cash and cards accepted4 attendees
Gay Social's Reading Between the Lines LGBTQ Book Club (RSVP)
Howling Basset Books, 45 North main street, lambertville, NJ, USThis event is organized by Gay Social, a 501(c)(3) nonprofit dedicated to fostering connections within our LGBTQ+ community through vibrant and inclusive social events. Join us to celebrate diversity, build friendships, and have some fun! Visit www.gaysocialnj.org for more information.
RSVP HERE: https://www.howlingbassetbooks.com/event
Reading Between the Lines is a book-centered gathering that brings the LGBTQ community together for thoughtful, group conversation. The book is chosen by past attendees, which helps shape each gathering into something that feels shared and community-driven from the start.
The discussion is open and welcoming, with people jumping in to share thoughts, listen, and connect through different perspectives. You do not need to be a fast reader or have every page finished to feel part of the conversation. Curiosity and openness go a long way here.
Our Community Managers and the owners of Howling Basset Books, welcome newcomers and help guide the discussion so everyone has space to participate.
Event details
📚 About every six weeks, Sundays
⏰ 6:00 PM to 8:00 PM
📍 Howling Basset Books, Lambertville
🎟️ RSVP / Free to Attend
🅿️ Paid & free street parking nearby7 attendees
Past events
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