About us
Local Singles, Real In-Person Connections
Welcome to Local Singles
There’s something truly special about Santa Fe, NM, a majestic and quirky city that attracts a vibrant, eclectic mix of singles from around the world. Here, entrepreneurs, artists, adventurers, doctors, lawyers, musicians, engineers, retirees, and more come together with a shared desire for meaningful, real-life authentic connections. We're a community of motivated singles, building friendships, sparking romance, networking, dating and cultivating community. The variety of backgrounds, passions, and life experiences create a dynamic, ever-evolving landscape of unique connection and individuality for our singles.
Local Singles cultivates personal safety, respect, and discretion within the community. With that, our guidelines include that each member refrain from gossip, rumors, and/or personal attacks, especially against anyone else in the group.
Our approach is all about building genuine connections in your local community and in person, whether that’s friendship, community, networking or dating.
In-person socials are making a comeback, as singles seek not just potential partners, but also local friends in their community. Our community attracts attendees from Albuquerque, Taos, Los Alamos, and beyond, all coming together to enjoy vibrant, face-to-face gatherings.
Local Singles, now with over 1900+ single members is creating healthier and happier lives through social connections by building community, authentic connections, friendships, dating, and relationships in a natural and organic environment.
Local Singles hosts unique events and experiences throughout Santa Fe, bringing singles together at venues full of great energy and atmosphere. For us, the location is just as important as the connection and the experience.
Our gatherings range from mingles and dance parties to fundraisers, local experiences, and small-group socials designed to help people connect in fun, meaningful ways. We also love getting outdoors with walks, hikes, and dog-friendly meetups, making it easy to meet new friends while enjoying Santa Fe’s beauty.
Some of our favorite venues have included El Rey Court, La Posada, Nuckolls, As Above So Below, The Mystic, The Hilton Ortiz, Bishop Lodge, Iconik Coffee, outdoor parks, Milk of the Poppy, The Railyard, The High Desert Hideaway, Hervé Wine Bar, The Drury Hotel, and more — because every great connection deserves an inspiring setting.
Research shows strong social connections are just as important as exercise to our overall health and improving your overall happiness.
Find common interest, unique connections and enjoy being a part of a thriving singles community in Santa Fe.
New Singles and (2nd time singles can request): Requested Service.
We want your experience to be stress free. That’s why, we’ve created a VIP service just for you. First time singles, will receive a “red dot” placed on your name tag, giving you an extra welcome from our singles community. Once your checked in, you and another red dot single will be connected to one of our regular singles, creating 2 connections and introducing you to other singles. Your single will check in during the social to make sure your having a good time.
The format of our socials:
To make mingling easier, everyone receives a name tag emblazoned with the phrase, “Ask me about ______.” It’s a great way to get to know people and a great conversation starter. Some socials have structured activities to make connecting fun and easy.
YourHost
Hi, I’m Maggie, your host and founder for Local Singles.
I’m committed to bringing more happiness and love into this world by connecting singles of all ages in-person. You will be welcomed and rest assured we will make you feel right at home. Remember have an open mind, relax, and enjoy the ride.
Check us Out:
Santa Fe Reporter, February 14th Love and Sex issue "The Numbers Game, Living Life as a Single in Santa Fe".
https://www.sfreporter.com/guides/loveandsex/2024/02/14/the-numbers-game/
KTRC Live radio interview on February 5
***https://santafe.com/podcast/richard-eeds-show=february-5-2024/***
Photography & Video Notice
Photos and videos are often taken at our events to capture the fun and connection. If you prefer not to be photographed or recorded, please kindly let the photographer or videographer know at the event.
Upcoming events
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Connect With Intention, Guided, 40-60's Singles, with Relationship Coach, Tyler
CHOMP Culinary Collective, 505 Cerrillos Rd Ste B101, Santa Fe, NM 87501, USA, Santa Fe, NM, US### A Guided, Interactive Singles Experience
Curiosity • Openness • Depth • Connection
This evening is for singles who want to practice presence, attunement, and deeper connection in a space that's safe to experiment and learn something new.
You'll explore your relationship attachment style: its strengths, its blind spots, and how it shows up in dating and relationships. Through guided conscious-relating exercises, both nonverbal and one-on-one sharing, you'll get to know others in a way that goes beyond small talk.
The goal isn't to find your soulmate tonight (though we're open to it!). It's to practice a deeper way of relating, one that's slightly brave and stretches you a bit, and to leave with more self-awareness and insight for your dating journey.
Everyone is working on the same things, so intention and openness matter more than gender or age.
These skills aren't just for dating. You can bring them into every part of your life: work, family, friendships, and intimate partnership.
This is a low-pressure, lighthearted evening, where there are no mistakes, only experiments and learning.
You'll walk away with tools you can actually use.
What to expect:
- Arrive, grab a drink, and mingle
- A brief grounding meditation to help everyone settle in
- Introduction and the night's agreements by Tyler White
- Guided partner rotations with conversations that gradually move past small talk
- An exploration of attachment styles and how they show up in dating, for better and for worse, followed by sharing
- "Slightly brave" connection exercises designed to build presence and authenticity and to nudge you just outside your comfort zone, so you're more available when the right person shows up
- Open mingling to reconnect with anyone you enjoyed meeting
- One final experience to close the night on a high note
Details
- $10 at the door
- Come solo or bring a friend, either way you’ll fit right in
- Drinks are available for purchase and support our host venue
- Sobriety encouraged
- Tyler will invite members from his community
Meet Your Facilitator: Tyler White
Tyler White is a Santa Fe–based Relationship, Dating, and Intimacy Coach with over 10 years of experience helping singles and couples create deeper, more meaningful connections.
His approach encourages presence, curiosity, openness, and authentic communication, helping people better understand themselves and build healthier, more fulfilling relationships.
For this special Local Singles Santa Fe event, Tyler will guide singles through interactive experiences designed to move beyond small talk, explore connection, and engage with others in a more intentional way.
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Past events
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