Gist IRL Social

4.6•638 ratings

San Francisco, CA, US

About us

Gist is a guided experience designed to make it simpler for humans to connect intentionally, meaningfully, and without the noise.

Each mixer has a unique theme. Through a series of one-on-one 8-minute rounds, you get to meet everyone in the room. You show up as you are: no bios, no algorithms, no judgment. Just real people meeting in real life, with structure that makes it efficient, non-awkward, and unexpectedly joyful.

Whether you're here for new friendships, collaborators, or a deeper sense of presence, Gist creates space for mutual discovery — of others and of self.

We’re not building another networking tool — we’re restoring what it means to truly connect, and inviting you to try it for yourself.

Upcoming events

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Women's Speed Friending (Galentines)
Wed, Feb 25 · 6:00 PM PST
Biergarten, 424 Octavia Street, San Francisco, CA, US
RSVP via:
https://app.gistirl.com/event-details/RPGwbeWAChHmYV2esRPd

Valentine's may be over, but February is always the month of Galentines! This event is for women and female identifying persons only, thank you!

Join us at Biergarten in Hayes Valley for a Women's Speed Friending event. It's the perfect opportunity to meet like-minded women, make new connections, and enjoy authentic German beer and snacks in a lively outdoor setting. Whether you're new to the city or just looking to expand your circle, come share a pretzel and a laugh with us!

Step 1: Get Started (Check-in begins at 5:50 PM+)
Quick profile setup on your phone via the link above.

Step 2: Speed-Friending via the app (6:00PM ~ 7:00PM)
At the start of each new round, our app pairs you with your next one-on-one match.

Step 3: Mix & Mingle (7:00PM+)
Once the speed-friending concludes, feel free to continue a great conversation or introduce yourself to someone new.

Want to connect with someone? Use the app! It lets you stay in touch without ever revealing your phone number.

PS: Please support the venue by getting an item off their menu.

RSVP via:
https://app.gistirl.com/event-details/RPGwbeWAChHmYV2esRPd
69 attendees
Speed-friending: 20's Edition [San Jose]
Thu, Feb 26 · 6:30 PM PST
Jack's Bar & Lounge, 167 East Taylor Street, San Jose, CA, US
️ Join & Check-In

It's easy to feel a bit isolated in the city, but it does not have to be that way. Our 20's Speed-Friending event is the solution for finding your people! Typical social gatherings can often feel overwhelming or daunting, especially when you are walking into a room full of strangers. We have crafted this format specifically for genuine connection to take the pressure off. In each round, you might find your next new friends, gym buddies, or coffee partners.

Welcome! Here's Your Guide to the Event.

️ Join & Check-In

Step 1: Get Started (Check-in begins at 1:20PM+)
Quick profile setup on your phone via the link above.

Step 2: Speed-Friending via the app (1:30PM ~ 2:30PM)
At the start of each new round, our app pairs you with your next one-on-one match.

Step 3: Mix & Mingle (2:30PM+)
Once the speed-friending concludes, feel free to continue a great conversation or introduce yourself to someone new.

Want to connect with someone? Use the app! It lets you stay in touch without ever revealing your phone number.

PS: Please support the venue by getting an item off their menu.
136 attendees
Speed Friending for Ones into House Parties & Good Vibes
Sun, Mar 1 · 4:00 PM PST
Patricia's Green, Hayes St, San Francisco, CA 94102, San Francisco, Ca, US
️ Join & Check-In For Free (https://app.gistirl.com/event-details/lmh0QeOMcWSFZl415Qr1)

A fun, lightly structured mixer for people who love house parties, chill hangs, and fun vibes . You’ll rotate through easy, natural 10‑minute speed‑friending conversations - zero awkward small talk. Expect laid‑back, like‑minded people and a “let’s‑hang” energy.

FORMAT:
BEFORE EVENT: Click Join above and complete a quick profile setup on your phone.
4:00 PM+: Start speed‑friending rounds & meet your first match.
4:00–5:00 PM: 10‑minute conversations with each match.
5:00 PM+: Open mingle - chat with anyone you vibe with.

PS: Once you’re in the park, we’ll be in the section shown in the cover photo. I’ll be wearing a brown leather jacket and a scarf - say hi when you arrive.
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TRANSIT: Public transit is preferred. Use Google Maps or Apple Maps to find Muni, BART, and other transit lines. For parking garages, lots, or street parking, use the Parkopedia or SpotAngels or SpotHero apps to find options near the meetup location.
138 attendees
Creative Minds Speed-Friending [San Jose]
Sun, Mar 8 · 1:00 PM PDT
Stevie's Bar & Grill, 2705 Union Ave, San Jose, CA, US
️ Join and Check-in

Find Your Creative Crew!

Are you tired of the isolation that often comes with creative work? Do you struggle to find like-minded collaborators? We know the feeling. That's why we created Creative Minds Speed-Friending. This evening is specifically designed to unite passionate creative professionals, artists, designers, and innovators to share ideas, swap tips, and spark new collaborations or friendships.

Welcome! Here's Your Guide to the Event.

️ Join and Check-in

Step 1: Get Started (Check-in begins at 12:50PM)
Quick profile setup on your phone via the link above.

Step 2: Speed-Friending via the app (1:00PM ~ 2:00PM)
At the start of each new round, our app pairs you with your next one-on-one match.

Step 3: Mix & Mingle (2:00PM+)
Once the speed-friending concludes, feel free to continue a great conversation or introduce yourself to someone new.

Want to connect with someone? Use the app! It lets you stay in touch without ever revealing your phone number.

PS: Please support the venue by getting an item off their menu.
15 attendees