
What weâre about
Hi everyone! đ Welcome! I'm so glad you're here.
The mission is to create a cozy, welcoming space for introverted women in their 30s and 40s to connect over a shared love of reading, without feeling overwhelmed or "on" all the time. We will focus on smaller groups, thoughtful conversation, and a relaxed, no-pressure environment.
Format:
- Meet Twice a Month:
- First Meetup: Fiction Book Discussion
- Second Meetup: Non-fiction Book Discussion
- November and December are usually pretty busy, so we may decide to hold informal get-togethers for those months.
- Group Size:
- Each event will be limited to 6 participants maximum, including the organizer.
- Smaller groups = easier conversations, more connection, less overwhelm.
- Format:
- Meetups will last about 1.5â2 hours.
- We'll meet at cozy spots (like a quiet cafe or restaurant).
- No formal presentations â just casual discussion guided by a few light conversation prompts.
- Itâs 100% okay just to listen if youâre feeling quieter that day.
- Book Selection:
- A mix of popular, literary, cozy, and thought-provoking titles.
- Members can suggest books, and we'll occasionally vote on future selections.
- Selections to be announced at least 1 month in advance to give time for reading.
- General Vibe:
- Calm, welcoming, non-judgmental.
- No icebreakers, forced games, or putting people on the spot.
- It's okay if you donât finish the book â you're still welcome to come and listen.
I'm open to all feedback, so please don't hesitate to comment or reach out.
Looking forward to meeting you soon â in the calm, introvert-friendly way we all appreciate. đ€ Courtney
Upcoming events (4+)
See all- FICTION: The Correspondent, by Virginia EvansKitava - Solano Ave, Albany, CA
For this event, I've chosen this new novel by Virginia Evans. It just came out at the end of April, and the main character is an avid letter writer. I used to write letters in my 20s to an overseas pen pal, and I'm curious to see if this inspires me to start again! https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/223001257-the-correspondent
"Imagine, the letters one has sent out into the world, the letters received back in turn, are like the pieces of a magnificent puzzle, or, a better metaphor, if dated, the links of a long chain, and even if those links are never put back together, which they will certainly never be, even if they remain for the rest of time dispersed across the earth like the fragile blown seeds of a dying dandelion, isnât there something wonderful in that, to think that a story of oneâs life is preserved in some way, that this very letter may one day mean something, even if it is a very small thing, to someone?" - An excerpt from The Correspondent
"Thoughtful musings on the value and immortal quality of letters and the written word populate one of Sybilâs notes to a young correspondent while other messages are laugh-out-loud funny, tinged with her characteristic blunt tartness. Evans has created a brusque and quirky yet endearing main character with no shortage of opinions and advice for others but who fails to excavate the knotty difficulties of her own life. As Sybil grows into a delayed self-awareness, her letters serve as a chronicle of fitful growth." - Kirkus Reviews
*This event will be held at the new Kitava location on Solano Ave in Albany. They have lots of allergen-friendly food options. You can find their menu here: https://www.kitava.com/kitava-albany-menus/
Please reach out if you have any questions. Thanks!
- FICTION: Beautyland, by Marie-Helene BertinoCafe Leila, Berkeley, CA
For this event, I've chosen this sci-fi read by Marie-Helene Bertino. I'm not usually a sci-fi gal, but I admit that the description and the beautiful cover drew me in! Sometimes you need to ponder what it means to be human. https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/127282939-beautyland
"Beautyland, named after the 'dash-to-in-a-pinch supplyâ store that, along with Auto Worldâs floppy inflatable man, are totems from Adinaâs childhood, is written in a dry, matter-of-fact style, befitting of a novel where the protagonist sends daily memos to a home world sheâs never seen. But itâs not dull. Most certainly not. I could easily spend the rest of this review quoting Adinaâs hilarious, poetic, and wise observations. Hereâs a selection: 'I require speech lessons and corrective lenses, and most likely teeth braces. I am an expensive extraÂterrestrialâ/ âAdulthood seems like a yearslong equation to beat trafficâ/ âThe ego of the human male is by far the most dangerous aspect of human societyâ (to which the aliens respond: THIS HAS BEEN WELL DOCUMENTED) / âDeathâs biggest surprise is that it does not end the conversation.â My favourite line from the novel isnât from a fax, but rather: âAdina smiles at the girl in the mirror. The girl in the mirror, bound by physics, returns her smile.â It somehow typifies everything brilliant about Adina and this book." - Ian Mond, LocusMag
*This event will be held at Cafe Leila on San Pablo Ave in Berkeley. They have a large back patio, so hopefully we can sit outside. You can find their menu here: https://www.cafeleila.com/menus
Please reach out if you have any questions. Thanks!